The First Question

If people are complaining about something being harmful to a marginalised group that you're not part of and you don't get the problem then the first question you need to ask is "who are the people complaining?"

If none of the people complaining appear to be part of the Marginalised Group in question then maybe take that discourse with a pinch of salt. (especially if you see pushback against that discourse from people within that marginalised group)

But if the people complaining are from the Marginalised group that’s supposed to be being hurt then the reason you don’t see the problem is that you don't understand the issues that group faces well enough.

In that case your job is to shut up, listen and do some reading.

Take in what Marginalised people have to say about it. Google the things they refer too. Learn. And thank the people who helped you do it. Thank them at least, if you can throw them some cash, even just a little.

Do not dig in your heels and argue or try to dismiss it.

Learn first.

Every time.